Be Silent For It Is Beautiful Christmas

You Can Stun At Any Age

Oh this is just Mikey... one of the family from our days at Gold's Gym Venice. For those of us who were there, we'll always have those special memories to cherish. Mikey was always exceptional. I use to look at Mikey at the gym and think "damn, you fine." Ha ha.  Anyway, here he is exemplifying that you can stun at any age. So if you're in your late 30s, 40s, 50s or even 60s, stop trying to look or act young. That's tacky. If you don't like something about yourself, just work on it. Small steps lead to big changes.  A healthy self-esteem is critical to your psychological well-being. Stop resisting what is inevitable. Embrace your age.  Aging is a part the circle of life and a part of your journey. Enjoy the journey for time is passing.

Jacqueline Sebiane

Ode To Movie Star Will Smith

Throughout my journey of life I have been very well connected in the celebrity community through my career and love life. Years ago I use to be very close with actor Alfonso Ribeiro and through my affiliation with Alfonso I had the pleasure of meeting Will Smith in person at a private pajama party at Alfonso's home in Hollywood. Will pulled up in a silver Mercedes sedan, came into the party commanding attention and started rapping one of his hit songs as we all danced. It was wild. Will was a  big TV star at the time and went on to become a huge movie star. Now he's written a book. And I have this very cool memory.

Using Your Platform For The Greater Good

When you see the current state of the world, it is crystal clear that something is very wrong. Day after day you hear the most outrageous things on the evening news. We can attribute this callous lawlessness to hatred, greed, revenge, drugs, alcohol, mental illness or pure evil. Some events strongly appear to be the wrath of God. Whatever the cause, the effects are severe. It is obvious that mankind has separated from Almighty God. If we continue on this ill-fated trajectory, we will certainly be the masters of our own demise. So remember how very important it is to prioritize your faith in God to keep the gift of life in its proper perspective. Cleanse your mind, body, soul and spirit of all that is impure and always walk towards the light.

Thanks for sharing your light Todd Chrisley. We love you.

Evidence For The Police In My Father Efrain "Frank" Seviane's Suspicious Death

I discovered the above photo of my late father in the hospital in 2015 some time ago. When I saw the photo, I was very disturbed. I was disturbed at the content of the photo and the nefarious purposes of those responsible for taking the photo and posting it to social media in a gross violation of my father’s right to privacy. I had to think hard as to whether or not to post this photo because for me it is very painful to see. When I came to the realization of the cold, hard truth that this image was photographic evidence of the malfeasance that took place related to my father’s suspicious death, I knew it was my responsibility to post it for law enforcement to have.

This is a picture of my beautiful father as he lay paralyzed after a severe ischemic stroke. My father's stroke would not have occurred had it not been for the illegal actions of an unethical doctor Hanna Yoshino (Medical License No. A 72259) giving false diagnoses to run a pill mill for profit. This is a doctor who did improper and illegal things for and with my estranged sibling Lisbeth “Liz” Sebiane before and after my father's death; including but not limited to violating HIPPA, falsifying notes in medical records and falsifying diagnoses to benefit from the sale of dangerous prescription pills. This doctor also did this to my elderly mother until it came to my attention and I confronted her on a falsified diagnosis. You can read about Liz here… https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2019/06/elder-abuse-alert-lisbeth-liz-sebiane.html. I don’t know who took the photo but I suspect who did given what I witnessed and experienced at the hospital as my father lay helpless with a traumatic brain injury. Dyeana Bermudez, Lisbeth’s daughter, who goes by the alias Dyeana “Seviane” is the one who posted the photo to social media to advertise my father’s injury and to make it appear to others as if he was just a sick old man who was dying. To gain a better understanding of this tragic story, you can read about Dyeana here... https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2020/12/shining-law-enforcement-spotlight-on.html. Immediately after my father’s stroke, Lisbeth brought her boyfriend Richard Diaz to the Emergency Room and ordered me to leave stating she needed to be alone with Richard and my father even though my father was unconscious. She stated to me "you know I am in charge of dad even though there in nothing in writing." That statement is key as she soon thereafter manufactured a legally invalid document backdated to 2010 purportedly giving her control of my father, his real estate and his remains. In the fraudulent document Liz grotesquely falsified that all of her siblings, including me, got a copy of said fraudulent document so the document would go uncontested. Lisbeth then suspiciously started photographing and videotaping my father in violation of patient privacy laws. She made sure that lots of her friends and my cousins Sebiane were at the hospital and later at her house in Upland, CA where she methodically had my paralyzed, critically ill father transported to die. She did this to make it appear to all as if she was taking care of my father in his invalent state but in the cloak of darkness when no one else was around, Liz did her dirt.

Pictured in the photograph are my estranged siblings retired LAPD Officer Frank Jerry Seviane (Serial No. 32809) and Ana Lorraine Seviane Wilson Giras. It is very obvious to the seasoned law enforcement professional that this is a staged photograph. No one who is truly grieving over an ill person looks up for a photo op as Ana is doing in this photo. People who are grieving don't need to take photos of this type and post them to social media to show that they are grieving. Are you with me? Frank had a very strained relationship with my father. In fact, just two weeks before my father’s stroke I had to take my father to the emergency room where he became distraught and was crying. When I reluctantly called Frank for help, he did not return my call but rather called my mother screaming that he would not help stating he had his own life to live. I know for a fact that this image of him appearing to be grieving is contrived. When the team of LAPD investigators under Captain Brian Thomas of the Internal Affairs Group, Criminal Investigation Division asked me “what do you mean Frank was hovering over your father at the hospital?” this picture answers that question. Individually and collectively Frank and Liz were propagating “do not resuscitate” orders to hospital staff. Each time I tried to intervene or do something to help or comfort my father, I was attacked by Frank and Liz with threats of intimidation, harassment and verbal abuse. Every time I entered the hospital, I had to ask for a security escort. Twice I contacted the LAPD for help to protect my father at the hospital and both times I was muted and ignored by the LAPD because of my brother pulling police officer privilege tactics to cover up what him and Liz were doing. This is how I had the misfortune of meeting controversial LAPD Sergeant Joel Sydanmaa (Serial No. 33196) on September 18, 2015. You can read about Sgt. Joel Sydanmaa  here… https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2016/07/lapd-sergeant-joel-sydanmaa-on-job.html. Sgt. Sydanmaa’s dereliction of duty that day directly contributed to the terrible things that occurred which led to my father’s untimely death. I will soon write a full posting of the events of that day which are very disturbing on so many levels.

Nobody rescued my father when I repeatedly asked for help. My father's death was hastened. There was no proper disposition on a cause or manner of death and no toxicology report because there was no autopsy. Lisbeth concealed the name and location of the funeral home from me then collaboratively with my two other siblings falsified that my father had only three children to circumvent the law that required my signature for a cremation. They did this knowing I refused to sign off because I wanted an autopsy given the suspicious circumstances. My father's death certificate contains incomplete, inaccurate and falsified information reported by the main person of interest in his death Lisbeth "Liz" Sebiane.

There is more to come on this story. This is not a complete statement of the facts.

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UGLY SIBLINGS

UGLY DOLLS SIBLINGS

You hear stories all the time of people who hurt or kill innocent victims in their greedy quest for money, real estate and material possessions that they are not legally entitled to. You watch these stories on TV on the news, on 60 Minutes, on Dateline and on 48 Hours on a regular basis. Sometimes movies are made from these terrible real-life stories. A lot of what you are reading on my blog is my real-life story but by the grace of God I am still here to leave an electronic footprint for law enforcement and prosecutors of the events that have unfolded that led to my father's untimely, suspicious death and other unsavory crimes by criminals who have yet to be properly investigated, charged and prosecuted. During the investigative stage in the aftermath of the insurrection at the U.S. Capital in Washington, D.C. on January 6, 2021, you heard numerous incidents of people turning their family members in to the FBI for their family members' participation in the insurrection. Also, remember the story of fraudster Bernie Madoff who ran the largest Ponzi scheme in history to the tune of approximately $60 billion dollars and how he was caught? His own sons had to turn him in to the authorities. Until you are in the position of being affected by unscrupulous family members engaging in illicit activity, you will find it hard to understand why someone has to go against the grain and turn family members in to the authorities. Not everyone's experience of family is a positive one. You can choose your friends but you cannot choose your family.

Pictured in the above photograph are my three much older siblings as follows from left to right: (1) Ana Lorraine Seviane Wilson Giras; (2) retired L.A.P.D. Officer Frank Jerry Seviane, Jr. (Serial No. 32809); and Lisbeth "Liz" Seviane. You can read about Liz here https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2019/06/elder-abuse-alert-lisbeth-liz-sebiane.html and you can read about her daughter here  https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2020/12/shining-law-enforcement-spotlight-on.html. 

There are many material differences between me and my siblings. They were all born in Costa Rica in abject poverty and I was born in America when my parents had more money. They were all raised with strict military style discipline whereas I was the golden child who was extremely spoiled by both of my parents and the apple of my late father's eye. They are all uneducated whereas I have a degree from UCLA.  They all have a history of financial problems and are otherwise unsuccessful in life. These facts are what caused the seemingly lifelong jealousy, hatred, abuse and harassment I have had to endure at the hands of these three individuals. I remember being bullied and mistreated as a little girl by my siblings but mostly by Frank and Liz. And even as I am posting to this blog exercising my right to freedom of speech pursuant to the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, Frank and Liz are harassing me through my elderly mother. They both know my mother to be very troubled yet they continue to escalate her while she is symptomatic directing her to relay veiled threats of bodily harm and impending doom if I don't remove my postings about them which are either factual in nature or based on my opinion. 

Before and after my father's untimely death, a lot of wrongdoing occurred; including but not limited to my three siblings engaging in collusion in an attempt to blackmail me over real property that was gifted to me by proper legal process. They also circumvented relevant law to illegally sign off on the cremation of my father's remains when in fact I made it very clear that I would not sign any documents until the San Bernardino County coroner conducted an autopsy. They also prevented me from seeing my father on his death bed even as my father asked for me with what little breath he had. My siblings do everything together in threes. A lot of this illegal activity was facilitated by the fact that my brother was a peace officer employed as an L.A.P.D. officer and his conduct was never questioned because of the misguided assumption of honesty associated with peace officers and the special privileges given to police officers. Those special privileges that my brother repeatedly shielded himself under for over 20 years have recently come to an end with the new policing reform legislation signed by California Governor Gavin Newsom; numerous much needed bills which hold police officers accountable for their conduct. For over 20 years, rank and file at the L.A.P.D. remained complicit on my brother's questionable conduct, his deep-rooted anger issues and his affiliation with convicted felon Colin Nathanson of South Africa who is currently incarcerated in federal prison.

This is not a complete statement of the facts. There is more to come on this story.

Jacqueline Sebiane

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The Hunt For Gabby Petito's Suspected Killer Brian Laundrie

California Governor Gavin Newsom Signs Policing Reform Legislation

As the sister of a police officer of the Los Angeles Police Department (Serial No. 32809) I have been very vocal about the improper special privileges, dishonesty and corruption at the LAPD that I experienced and witnessed; including the lack of supervision, oversight and accountability of individual officers engaging in wrongdoing. If you peruse the various postings on this blog, you will find numerous stories of impropriety by certain police officers like LAPD Detective Gerald Gibson, LAPD Detective Mike Johnson, LAPD Sergeant Joel Sydanmaa, LAPD Deputy Chief Pete Zarcone and LAPD Captain Brian Thomas of Internal Affairs Criminal Investigation Division.  Oftentimes bodacious people like me are vilified for speaking out about controversial issues that are not right; like corruption in police departments and police officer misconduct. The murder of George Floyd in 2020 by a Minneapolis Police Officer was the final straw and catalyst for change on policing. 

On today's date California Governor Gavin Newsom signed legislation creating a system to decertify peace officers for serious misconduct. He also signed legislation increasing transparency of peace officer misconduct records, improving policing responsibility and accountability guidelines, raising eligibility standards and banning harmful restraint techniques.

SB 2 by Senate President pro Tempore Toni Atkins (D-San Diego) and Senator Steven Bradford (D-Gardena) creates a system within the Commission on Peace Officer Standards and Training ("POST") to investigate and revoke or suspend peace officer certification for serious misconduct such as excessive use of force, sexual assault and demonstration of bias or dishonesty. This legislation creates the Peace Officer Standards Accountability Division and the Peace Officer Standards Accountability Advisory Board within POST to evaluate serious misconduct cases.

SB 16 by Senator Nancy Skinner (D-Berkeley) increases transparency of peace officer misconduct records pertaining to findings of unreasonable or excessive use of force, discriminatory or prejudiced behavior, failure to intervene when witnessing excessive use of force by a peace officer or participation in unlawful searches and arrests.

Governor Newsom also signed AB 26 by Assemblymember Chris Holden (D-Pasadena) which creates guidelines for police officers to intercede and immediately report if a fellow officer is using excessive force. This is huge. Some police officers' may feel that the onerous is being put on them for the misconduct of their peers but this is a game changer with respect to the gang-like mentality that history has shown can permeate a police department and present itself in the field. This is not a break in the thin blue line. This is different. The "see something, say something" mantra should most definitely also apply to police officers in policing. Let's continue to show support for our police officers while also holding them accountable when they step out of line.

Jacqueline Sebiane 

*Source of Official Information: Office of Governor Gavin Newsom

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Showing Love & Respect To The Elderly

Why does society marginalize the elderly? Some of the most valuable gifts (i.e., knowledge, experience, history, ancestry, heritage, traditions, genetic records, a window into our origin and a glimpse into our future selves) come from the elderly. Why don't people today cherish, protect and celebrate the elderly? In the past ten plus years I watched in astonishment and sadness as my parents aged and were exploited for financial gain by doctors, family members and other random people and entities. And I am using the word "family" very loosely. Unfortunately my beautiful father's life came to an untimely and suspicious end in 2015 as a consequence of this exploitation. 

https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2019/06/elder-abuse-alert-lisbeth-liz-sebiane.html

And as a result of this indescribable loss I now hover over my elderly mother like a guardian angel protecting her from every harm out there. I listen intently to every story she tells me about her childhood, my childhood, her struggles, her achievements and her love story with my dad. 

Remember to be loving, caring, empathetic, respectful to and protective of the elderly.

Jacqueline Sebiane

Mikey O'Hearn On Aging Gracefully

The #1 myth in this world..

It’s the myth of: “You get worse with age”

A bunch of B.S..

The truth is, age is another word for time.

It tells us how much time somebody has been exposed to.

Now think of time as an element, and when exposed to this element you naturally decay...not just your health, but your relationships your skills, your money (inflation)... everything.

And this element is something you’re exposed to 24/7/365, you can’t run from it.

Now this is a rule for everything on this planet, not just humans.

But humans are unique.

We have the ability to use time to our advantage. We do this by taking the time, investing it into an activity and in turn we grow.

The more you train the more you grow. The more money you invest the more it grows. The more time you spend on your relationship the more it grows etc...

I just told you the secret to success in life.

It’s an equation: Take Time (T) + Action (A) + consistency (C) and you get Growth (G) T+A+C=G

That’s the long game. You Trade time for growth and success will come.

This is one of the most important rules to life. And the people who don’t follow always wish they had.

Everyday I interact with highly successful people and I can tell you for a FACT that 100% of them followed this equation.

And one of those people is Actor/Model (Old school kind of modeling) Antonio Sabato Jr.

He’s consistently investing his time into growth activities and lives a fulfilling live most dream of because of it.

I brought him onto my podcast, Mornings With Titan, and we went deep on this topic.

Stay vigilant. Don’t lighten up, TITAN UP!⁣

⁣

Mike O'Hearn The Titan

https://mikeohearn.com/shop/titanchallenge3/

Ladies Bring Your A Game

This is inspiration for all women feeling oppressed by sexism. Say "hell no" to the limiting thoughts within. If you want something and don't go after it, you know the result. If you are brave enough to pursue your dreams, success is in the realm of possibility. Here's to females breaking barriers.

Lifting Your Mother On High

The story of Richard Branson is very grandiose. This video letter to his mum and how her life influenced and directed the trajectory of his life is very beautiful. 

Don't forget to lift your mother on high and show respect to her if she is still alive or to her memory if she is no longer alive. Even if your childhood was not picture perfect or your relationship with your mother was or is not ideal, remember that she may have experienced hardships that affected who she was or became. Maybe she did the best she could with what she had. Or maybe she made mistakes because she is not perfect or didn't know better. Be aware that even a difficult situation can have a positive influence on your life if you open your heart and mind to the message the universe is sending to you. So whether your relationship with your mother is strong, weak or non-existent, never forget that through her body you were created and breathed life. And that is the most spiritual connection you will ever have with another human being.

Jacqueline Sebiane  

Nanny Faye Chrisley Sending Love To The Haters

Nanny Faye Chrisley telling it like it is. Improper as this sentiment may be, sometimes this is what it is. It might not be appropriate to express it, but sometimes as human beings this is how we feel if we are being honest. If you have ever been used, abused, disrespected, demeaned, devalued, mistreated, misrepresented, treated unfairly, lied on, lied about... this is what the sentiment can be and usually is. And even though it is not socially acceptable to express this sentiment, sometimes we feel this way but cannot express it. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

DJ Pauly D Getting Paid Big $ To Act A Fool

Freedom Is Everything

Happy Independence Day. America still rocks. Stay positive and enjoy the gift of life.

Learning From The Past And Moving Forward

Society at large paid a heavy price with long-lasting consequences by not being informed and taking preventative measures. Let's do some forecasting and stay ahead of the game. Knowledge is key. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

A Plug For Sexy John Cena - #TheSuicideSquad

Discrimination And Mistreatment Of Disparate Groups Of People

For years there has been discrimination and mistreatment of disparate groups of people (i.e., Italians, Hispanic people, Jewish people, Asian people, black people, homosexuals, transgenders, LPs (i.e., little people), overweight people,  the elderly, the impoverished, etc.). This is simply unacceptable. We cannot rewrite history and we cannot erase hatred but we can educate the ignorant and lead by example. Be an example and do not perpetuate ignorance.

Jacqueline Sebiane

The Exceptional Wisdom Of Oprah Winfrey

The educated and deep spiritual manner in which Oprah Winfrey approaches sensitive issues is simply exceptional. 

Mama June Rocking The House

June Shannon, aka Mama June, is in the house! Mama June started off as a hillbilly welfare mother who came on the scene through the TV show Toddlers and Tiaras with her then young daughter Alana Thompson who she use to enter in pageants to earn extra money. Unbeknownst to Mama June this simple act would be the vehicle through which she and her family would be discovered and offered a TV show "Here Comes Honey Boo Boo." This was a simple, silly show about their redneck, hillbilly lifestyle which at the time was exploding on the reality TV scene. With success of the show came the trappings of money, fame and opportunists looking to capitalize off that money and fame. Soon thereafter came the downfall that mixing with the wrong people usually brings causing that show to be cancelled indefinitely. Luckily for Mama June and her family, Hollywood came knocking again for the second chance at a show "Mama June From Not To Hot" which showcased the road to her physical transformation. Then came the second downfall through her boyfriend Geno Doak which was drug use, addiction, reckless financial decisions and yes legal problems which included jail. Then came a spinoff "Mama June Road To Redemption" which captured, you guessed it, her road to redemption wherein Mama June conquered her drug addiction and escaped a prison sentence for her drug charges. Now cut to today... Mama June is thriving. I love a good come back story. To quote the Jersey Shore's Mike Sorrentino who also successfully emerged from a downward spiral (i.e., addiction and jail)... "the comeback is greater than the setback."

So, if you are struggling and have made some ugly mistakes, remember that you can always turn it around if you learn from those mistakes and make a concerted effort to have a better life. Out of the darkness emerges the light. The light always shines through the darkness. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

It's Alright To Feel Lost Sometimes

Heed the message in this story which stopped Simon Cowell in his tracks. The message may be different for each one of you as we all experience and view life from our own unique perspectives. What pulled at my heart strings was the message in the song being beautifully sung by this frail young woman who obviously was, and still is, very ill with the real possibility of death before her. At any moment of any given time this could be anyone of us. If you are healthy, be thankful and empathetic towards those who are not well. If you are ill, be hopeful and pray that God be merciful with the gift that is your life. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

Treat Me Right

I don't agree with anyone being mistreated. I don't agree with anyone being treated as less than. We are all human beings and deserve to live with dignity. We can agree to disagree but let's live and let live. Let's try to be decent human beings and treat others as we wish to be treated. 

Jacqueline Sebiane 

Renown California Attorney Tom Girardi Has Been Disbarred

Erika Jayne, wife of Los Angeles based attorney Tom Girardi, has been flaunting her supposed wealth on the TV show The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills for several years now. On the show she flagrantly displays her opulent lifestyle and often boasts of her husband's legal skills. The web of lies that was Erika Jayne's and Tom Girardi's seemingly perfect life has now been exposed as a result of the State Bar of California taking legal action against Girardi for having allegedly embezzled millions upon millions of dollars from his clients to whom he owed a fiduciary duty. Here is what the California State Bar is currently saying about the now disgraced attorney:

Thomas Vincent Girardi #36603

Current License Status: Not Eligible to Practice Law

CONSUMER ALERT

The State Bar of California has filed disciplinary charges against this licensee, alleging that the licensee engaged in a major misappropriation of client funds. You may read the Notice of Disciplinary Charges filed by the State Bar against the licensee, and any Response filed by the licensee on the State Bar Court Smart Search. You may also learn more about the general nature of misappropriation of client funds.

DISCLAIMER: Any Notice of Disciplinary Charges filed by the State Bar contains only allegations of professional misconduct. The licensee is presumed to be innocent of any misconduct warranting discipline until the charges have been proven.

Address: Girardi & Keese, 1126 Wilshire Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90017-1904

Phone: 213-489-5330

Fax: 213-481-1554

Email: Not Available

Website: Not Available

Present 

License Status - Not eligible to practice law in CA

3/30/2021

Discipline - Disciplinary charges filed in State Bar Court 21-O-30192

3/9/2021

License Status - Not eligible to practice law in CA

Administrative Action - Ordered inactive

1/13/1965

Admitted to the State Bar of California

Source: The State Bar of California.

And here is a related post of Erika Jayne and the now disgraced Tom Girardi with former Los Angeles Police Department Police Chief Charlie Beck: https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2016/01/lapd-chief-charlie-beck-on-real.html. It is noteworthy that Erika Jayne's son is an LAPD officer which begs the question of what favors, if any, the Girardi's received from the LAPD.

A Plug For Sexy John Cena

I love a man with a strong work ethic like John Cena. 

Prince Harry In The Me You Can't See

This is a powerful docuseries with a very creative title. People often wear a social veneer to conform to societal norms in a quest for acceptance when in reality they are masking deep internal pain which eventually manifests in destructive ways (e.g., addiction, depression, suicide, abnormal aggression, violence against others, murder, etc.). Mental health issues stem from a variety of sources such as psychological trauma or genetic disorders; some of which are hereditary. We need to stop referring to people with mental health issues and disorders in a derogatory fashion. How many times have you described someone as a psycho or told someone they were crazy as a put down? You need only to watch the evening news to understand that there is a mental health crisis going on in the world (e.g., the harming of helpless animals, the torturing, rape and/or murder of innocent children, violent attacks on the homeless, arsonists starting destructive fires, freeway shootings, mass shootings, etc.). We can only begin to tackle this monster by addressing the underlying issue of mental illness in an intelligent, constructive manner. And this all starts with a frank, non-judgmental discussion. The stakes are too high to ignore this any further. 

Jacqueline Sebiane    

When Silence And Apathy Are Not An Option; #GeorgeFloyd

Taking The Stigma Out Of The Affliction Of Mental Health Issues

Have A Nice Life

My handsome Dutch friend Jesse Meester enjoying life to the fullest. We can all learn from a page in the book of his life. Although it is not possible for everyone to travel the world to enjoy beautiful experiences, you can still seize the day by interjecting one of more things you love into your day. Sometimes this is a nap at dusk, a great meal, your favorite cup of tea, a good TV show, listening to nice music, having a good conversation with someone you like or spending time alone after midnight reading, writing or just resting. 

Sometimes people say "have a nice life" when they want you to fuck off and never contact them again. I mean it sincerely though when I say have a nice life. No matter what your circumstances, don't forget to enjoy your life.

Jacqueline Sebiane

Soothing Sounds For The Patriot Within

When You Know Better You Do Better

Self-esteem and self-love are very important. So stop beating yourself up. People, and society at large, expect you to be perfect. You will never be perfect nor will the people who expect you to be. In general when you know better you do better. Most of us are evolving. Regardless of whether you are evolving or have digressed, you must forgive yourself for your mistakes in order to evolve or to continue evolving. You're not a loser... only on the weekends. Just kidding!

And remember to be forgiving if you want forgiveness from God and others. It first starts, however, with forgiving yourself. God bless and be well.

Jacqueline Sebiane

In Honor Of Our American Peace Officers

The Me You Can't See By Prince Harry & Oprah

The Ugly Truth About LAPD Detective Jerry Gibson (Serial No. 32645)

I waited a long time before I decided to post this letter that I received from LAPD Lieutenant Nicholas Sinibaldi in regards to LAPD Detective Jerry Gibson who I had a personal relationship with until he exercised poor judgement and decided to threaten me because he wasn't getting what he was persistently pursuing. Lt. Sinibaldi is one of the very few sworn personnel of the LAPD that I have interacted with who has integrity; and I have interacted with a lot. Little did Lt. Sinibaldi know at the time he wrote this that years later it would become an evidentiary document that would catch several sworn personnel of the LAPD (including Gibson himself and his former commanding officer Deputy Chief Peter Zarcone) making false statements, manufacturing content in official government documents (including in e-files) then generating further false and misleading documentation to cover up the later. Zarcone was also my brother Frank's commanding officer when he made false statements of a significant nature in a now evidentiary document to cover up an incident related to my father's untimely death as a consequence of the negligence and dereliction of duty of Sgt. Joel Sydanmaa (Serial No. 33196). https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2016/07/lapd-sergeant-joel-sydanmaa-on-job.html The incident with my brother was just one of numerous incidents relating to his aggressive harassment of me in retaliation for me having reported his personal and financial involvement with convicted felon and federal prisoner Colin Nathanson of South Africa to the LAPD. https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2020/05/societal-entropy-and-decay.html This was an issue that the LAPD, including Captain Brian Thomas of the LAPD's Internal Affairs Criminal Investigations Division, remained and continues to remain complicit on. Why am I posting this now? I am doing it because I was an innocent victim of the LAPD's culture of depravity, of LAPD Detective Jerry Gibson and  of my brother Frank who incessantly harmed my life by invoking police officer privilege while the LAPD ignored my pleas for protection. https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2015/12/my-pastdetective-jerry-gibson-lapd.html Look below at the outrageous entanglement Detective Jerry Gibson dragged me into with the audacity years later to lie about it after I honorably shielded him from professional harm. I am also posting this now because the public has a right to know. This is what every civilian fears... cops telling lies verbally, in their databases, in documentation and ultimately in court. This is a very dangerous situation as these are the unethical actions that can land an innocent person in jail.

From: 24023@lapd.lacity.org 

To: JSebiane@aol.com

Sent: 2/17/2010 7:22:26 PM Pacific Standard Time

Subject: Re: Detective Gerald Gibson; CF# 09-003802

Ms Sebiane: 

The letter you received is one of a handful of form letters that could be sent out after a complaint is adjudicated.  Unfortunately, the wording in these letters is prescribed based one of a few possible adjudications.  We have no leeway in changing the wording they contain.  In some cases, the letters people receive from the police department may seem at odds with what they expected, but that is often because the letters are not allowed to be customized to suit every situation.  So, the letter which comes closest to describing the police department's findings is what is sent out to people who have made complaints.  

In this case, you made it clear you wished no action to be taken against Detective Gibson.  Therefore, the letter was the best one to accommodate your strongly expressed wish that the matter not affect him or his career.  If the letter had said he was guilty of something specific, that would have had a serious impact on his career.  Recall that you called me to insist that nothing happen to him.  Classifying the complaint as "Unfounded" satisfies your request that nothing happen to him. 

Please be assured that Gibson's record accurately reflects everything that you said (it was all on tape).  It was all fully documented and thoroughly reviewed starting with two police lieutenant's, then to his Captain, and all the way up to the level of a Deputy Chief.   There has not been anything that wasn't examined.  The police department spent several weeks working on your complaint.  Believe me, a lot of work already went into this. 

Gibson has been ordered not to ever contact you again, so please do not expect an apology from him.  Let me apologize on his and the Department's behalf.  We are all sorry this ever happened. 

As to the letter being detrimental to you, that is not the case.  The letter is confidential and has not, and will not be seen by anyone other than yourself, the person who signed it, and the clerk who filed it away.  We process thousands of these letters and have an unblemished record when it comes to their confidentiality.

There is nothing I can do beyond explaining the process, so I hope this was helpful.  If you have any more questions, please let me know..  

I hope this helps..

Thanks 

Lieutenant Nicholas Sinibaldi

Officer-in-Charge / Gang Impact Team

Pacific Area

12312 Culver Blvd.,

Los Angeles, CA 90066

(310) 482-6402

(310) 840-2165 fax

24023@lapd.lacity.org

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Acknowledging Our Law Enforcement Officers

Let's remember to show support for our law enforcement officers who are providing service in these very volatile, dangerous times. Let us not ever forget those who died in the line of duty. Don't confuse the important issues plaguing law enforcement agencies (e.g., racial profiling, corruption, cover-ups, excessive use of force, etc.) with the brave human beings providing service on a daily basis. Law enforcement is a vital function and those providing service deserve respect.

Jacqueline Sebiane

https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2021/04/cops-lives-matter.html

Ask Not What's Wrong With You But Rather What Happened To You

As a UCLA graduate in the discipline of Psychology, I am am a firm believer in the importance of not just knowing but also in acknowledging and understanding what happened to you particularly in early life and how it has affected you. One of the things I admire most about Oprah Winfrey is her advocacy for victims of psychological trauma and how she uses her fame and platform to help people in pain. Together with renowned brain development and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry, Oprah has co-written a book about trauma and healing. The healing part is critical to personal fulfillment in your journey of life. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

Educating Yourself On Diversity

I am very thankful that throughout most of my life I had the privilege of living in racially mixed neighborhoods, going to racially mixed schools and working at racially mixed companies and law firms. And throughout the journey of my life, I have had many different close friends, male and female, of different ethnicities (i.e., White, English, Irish, Italian, German, Austrian, Australian, Dutch, American Indian, Jewish, Spanish, Persian, Samoan, Japanese, Filipino, African American, etc.). This molded me into a well-rounded, open-minded person sensitive to all cultures and to all ethnicities. My wish for all of humanity is that people can learn to see others through that unique lens. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

Cops' Lives Matter

Let's remember to treat our police officers with dignity and respect. They are not just a badge; they are human beings just like the civilians they serve and protect. My sincere prayers go out to NYPD Police Officer Mundy's family. Rest his soul.

Let's also remember to be responsible and vigilant in the fight against this horrific virus. Be safe and be well. God bless.

My Sexy Friend Jesse Meester On Inspiration

Ask yourself this question: do I feel good or bad when I am around or engage with this certain person or group of people? Are you better or worse after having had that interaction or experience? If you feel bad or are worse, you should eliminate that person or group of people from your life. If you are in a toxic environment or situation (e.g., such as a hostile work environment or unhealthy relationship), politely bow out as soon as is reasonably possible. Know your worth. Only surround yourself with people who uplift you, inspire you and make you better. Your life has a value. Go out and flourish. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

 

Advocating For The Underdog

Ever since I was a little girl I have always advocated for the underdog. I have always defended those being bullied. I have always stood up for those being mistreated. I have always leant an ear to those who have needed to talk. I have always been friendly to the friendless. I have always been attentive to children and compassionate to the elderly. My empathy for others comes from being mistreated as a child by my older siblings who were jealous of me because I was the baby and my parents' favorite child. I was treated with a lot of hatred by my siblings just because I was alive. One sibling in particular, Liz Sebiane, was so mean to me that she was actually dangerous and my father was afraid to leave me alone with her when we were children. And all throughout my life that sibling was fixated on me and incessantly harassed me and tried to damage my life to the point that it became a serious legal matter. Remember the jealous sister in the movie The Bodyguard starring Whitney Houston who wanted Whitney's character (i.e., Rachel Marron) dead? It has been just like that. 

In the face of hatred throughout my childhood, however, the opposite happened to me. I learned to be kind, loving, respectful, sensitive to people's feelings and empathetic towards others. 

Enjoy this sweet video about a literal underdog whose circumstances changed for the better despite his imperfection.

Jacqueline Sebiane

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In Appreciation Of Our Doctors

A Plug For John Cena

Blake Shelton's Beautiful Music For God-Given Love

On my own I am only... 

half of what I could be... 

I can't do without you. 

God gave me you for the ups and downs... 

God gave me you for the days of doubt... 

For when I think I've lost my way, there are no words here left to say... it's true... 

God gave me you.

Jacqueline Sebiane

Feeling Weird, Out Of Sorts Or Overwhelmed

If you feel weird, out of sorts or overwhelmed do not be embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it with a trusted source or to seek help (i.e., support, guidance, etc.). Let's take the stigma out of being human. We are living in very complicated, stressful times and we are not equipped as human beings to handle so much all of the time without being affected personally.  We often talk about physical health but what about our mental health? It is not a sign of weakness to admit to yourself or others that you are not okay. There is an unequivocal connection between our mind, body and soul. And if you want to be a balance person, you must be cognizant of all three.

Jacqueline Sebiane

Celebrity Public Relations For The Vaccine; #VaccinateLACounty

Spring Equinox 2021

 

Your Parents By Tim McGraw And Jacqueline Sebiane

Do you ever think about the struggles your parents went through, separately or together, so you could have a better life? If they are still alive hug them, tell them you appreciate everything they have done for you and that you love them because death is very permanent. People always talk about the way their parents have failed them but what about the way children have failed their parents? Sometimes our parents are hurting; feeling undervalued, unappreciated and lonely. 

My parents, who grew up in poverty, emigrated to the USA and became American citizens by proper legal process. This was no easy task as they first had to learn to speak, read and write the English language. Feeling separated from their country in a foreign land and facing seemingly insurmountable challenges and discrimination at every trajectory, they worked tirelessly as a team to provide for their family. And when their financial status progressed, they were extremely generous in ensuring that we were all set up to be successful in life. I was born in America because of my parents, am a college graduate of UCLA and a homeowner because of them. My brother, who was not born in America, was given everything by my parents, including a custom built home, and was able to become a Los Angeles Police Officer with a very generous retirement package despite not being a college graduate. He is set up for life but never did right by my parents. My siblings, who have a very misguided sense of entitlement, were and are horrible to my parents. And my beautiful father, who was the victim of foul play by one or more of my siblings, is no longer alive and all of his money that my mother needs for her life and was legally entitled to as a beneficiary is suspiciously gone. https://jacqibone.blogspot.com/2019/06/elder-abuse-alert-lisbeth-liz-sebiane.html  And no police agency or governmental entity protected my parents. This is just heartbreaking to me as my parents deserve the world; especially respect. And I will exert my last breath restoring the dignity, honor and respect befitting of my mother and my father's memory.

Jacqueline Sebiane 

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The Adventures Of Professional Race Car Driver Bill Auberlen And Jacqueline Sebiane

I've known professional race car driver Bill Auberlen for many, many years. We've always had a very private and personal connection that never developed into a more meaningful grown-up relationship because of him, his issues and the way he rolls. I know him so well and what he will call this posting is "hype" for my blog because he has his own personal and convenient skew on our relationship over the years. He has surveilled me, befriended me, chatted me up, shared very personal parts of his life with me, taken me out, hung out with me, flirted with me, persistently pursued me, seduced me, sent me scores of sexually graphic direct messages, been super sweet to me, argued with me, insulted me, threatened me, put me in harms way and lied to me. I've ridden in his exotic cars (Ferrari, BMW M4) as he tried to impress me even though he knows that I am not easily impressed nor a push over. He knows me to be real with him and a ball buster. That, I believe, is what he could not handle. Anyhow, I caught him in one of his many lies one day when he told me that his ex-wife Yvette had an issue with him speeding while she was in the car with him. He told me that was not true. Now cut to the day he and I met up at the gym not long ago and he asked me to lunch. I was driving a new 5 series BMW and offered to drive but he wanted to impress me in his Matte M4 BMW so of course he said "I'll drive." What happened next was exhilarating and frightening at the same time. He got onto this stretch of highway (Crenshaw Boulevard) that is very long and curvaceous and, without warning, punched the gas accelerating the car from 0 - 60 (or more) MPH within just a few seconds. I literally temporarily blacked out and when I came to I was dizzy. And he was laughing. At the time it was exciting in a strange way. In retrospect, however, I realize that he put my life and his own in extreme danger even though he won't think so because he is a very skilled professional race car driver. Having done this on a regular street that is not a race track was reckless, irresponsible and illegal. Local law enforcement? After that experience I knew that he was lying to me when he told me he never sped on the streets with his ex-wife in the car. 

Jacqueline Sebiane

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Really, I Can't Breath

I am a firm believer in following the rules. At what point, however, does this mask mandate become unreasonable, irrational and counterintuitive to sustaining life. Breathing is life. If you stop breathing, you are no longer alive. If your brain is deprived of oxygen for a short time you will have brain damage. My rational mind is telling me that wearing a mask for anything other than a short period of time is unhealthy and unsanitary. We breath in oxygen and breath out carbon dioxide ("CO2"). Wearing a mask everywhere all the time for this long is restricting our normal breathing which I believe can have short term as well as long term deleterious effects. The rationale for the seemingly unending order to wear a mask is, we are being told, based on the science that doing so reduces the risk of spreading the virus. Whereas this might be true, what about the science of breathing normally. The level of CO2 in our bodies is what controls our breathing. When CO2 reaches a certain level, a signal is sent from the breathing center in our brain stem to the breathing muscles which triggers inhalation. Upon exhalation we exhale CO2 and a new breathing cycle starts. CO2 is being produced in our bodies all the time and when we breath we exhale the CO2 that has been built up in our bodies. The more active we are, the more CO2 is produced. That is why it is so important to breathe properly when we do strenuous exercise. And how can we properly expel the CO2 in our bodies and breathe the proper amount of oxygen in with a mask on our nose and mouth. We are breathing CO2 out onto that mask and breathing in whatever bacteria is being built up on that mask from the CO2 that leaves our bodies and the warm air coming out of our mouths. At the same time, we are not breathing in proper amounts of oxygen.

And if wearing a mask is so effective at stopping the spread of the virus according to what we are being told, then why is the virus still rampant according to the reports being published by the authorities? In my State of California 47 counties out of 58 are being reported as still in the "widespread" county risk level (https://covid19.ca.gov/safer-economy/)   after almost an entire year of being ordered to wear a mask. Something is rotten in Denmark. 

I think it  is irresponsible for the author of this CDC article to advise people to wear a mask during "high-intensity" exercise in a gym or elsewhere that requires deep and proper breathing without cautioning of the dangers of becoming lightheaded, dizzy or passing out. And there are many, many people with lung conditions who really struggle with breathing in the normal course let alone being muzzled with a mask. No matter how cool the manipulative ad campaigns make it sound, e.g., "wear a mask, save lives" or "do it for your family" or "wear a mask, be a hero" this is wrong at this point (e.g., almost one year in) on so many levels. Nevertheless, let's continue being responsible and following government orders by masking up but at what point does this end?