This is a strong message posted by Khloe on one of her social media accounts. The grammatical and typographical errors are hers, not mine, but I really like what she posted whether or not the thoughts are 100% hers. We all have relationships that deeply impact our lives. How we handle those relationships is key to the effect they have on our lives. Just like I have said about my relationship with BMW Race Car Driver Bill Auberlen (and he loves the title BMW Race Car Driver) "sometime's good-bye is the only solution."
Jacqueline Sebiane
khloekardashian "Letting go
doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing
that the only person you really have control over is yourself." Letting go
with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on people’s
problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry
their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, you can only express your
opinion on a situation. You can't want their life more than they do. This is in
fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe
in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and
dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest
deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. "People say time heals
all wounds... I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you
have been through and what you survived." Stop shattering your own heart
by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly
isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people's colors. We have
to learn to believe the love we AREN'T given. You can't love someone into
loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal,
kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to
be. Even if it's for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the
person you’re best without. 😩😫 You have to
understand... some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just
are NOT meant to be. Damn... It took me so many years to understand that. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always
has a plan even if we can't understand it (or don't want to understand it) Even
in the darkest of places... Our Lord sees His vision. We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will
always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put
your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on
to you. "A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken
person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces."
